Hot take: I spent 6 years avoiding my daughter's birthday because I thought showing up would confuse her, then her adoptive mom called last March and asked why I stopped

Ryan Kim · 2026-09-17T08:25:03.275865+00:00

Turns out I was protecting myself, not her, and I had it backwards the whole time.

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Hot take: I spent 6 years avoiding my daughter's birthday because I thought showing up would confuse her, then her adoptive mom called last March and asked why I stopped | Birth Mothers - Librear