My cousin said my great-grandfather's watch story was all wrong

I always told people this old pocket watch from my great-grandfather was from his time as a railroad conductor in the 1920s. I had a whole story about him using it to keep trains on schedule. Then my cousin, who's big into genealogy, sent me a scan of his 1918 draft card last month. His job was listed as 'machinist' for a tool company in Cleveland. She pointed out the watch was a common model for factory workers, not a railroad grade one. I felt pretty silly for not checking the facts. I dug out the family letters and she was right, there was no mention of railroads at all. Now I tell the story about him working with his hands and making precise parts, which feels more true. Has anyone else had a family story completely corrected by a simple record?

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aaron1971mo ago

Happened with my great aunt's wedding story. We always said she got married in a big church ceremony right after the war. Found her marriage license last year while cleaning out an old desk. Turns out it was a quiet courthouse wedding on a Tuesday. The fancy story came from a photo taken years later at a vow renewal. I actually like the real version better now. It feels more like her, less like a show for other people.

christopher671mo ago

Look, facts are just one part of a family story. That watch represented your great-grandfather's character to you, and a machinist keeping precise time is just as meaningful as a conductor doing it. The feeling you got from the original story was real, even if some details were off. Sometimes the legend we build says more about what we value than a draft card ever could. I'd say keep telling the railroad version if it connects people to his memory.